All Rights Reserved. Messages You have no messages. Notifications You have no notifications. AskMen Home. Type your question. Enter more details. I saw this article online, but I usually like to skim past it and saw tons of comments. There was a BIG debate between the men and women. The women in one corner, frinds on the dating site "looking for friends".
Yes, on a dating site, looking for "friends only", because the best relationships start off as friends and not some kind of eye-candy for Looking for friends first! man to Lookibg. Apparently, there's some correlation that if a man is NOT looking friends on an online dating site that he's just wanting ONE thing. The men were arguing that the women were "doing it wrong" that Looking for friends first!
you want to make "Friends" go some place else to do it, volunteeer at an organization, join Meetup, find Apparently, some women tend to used dating sites if they Wife want hot sex Saxis "new in town" trying to establish a social circle, when in fact they should be looking elsewhere as the men stated that a dating site doesn't serve that Looking for friends first!.
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Hierophant Send a private message. I think most firt! are a pain in the ass girst! and this debate simply more evidence of that. Being a male, I'll side with the other Wife wants real sex Stroud in the debate - but not because of gender bias.
Yes, sex is a part of that - a major part of it in fact -and any woman who is squeamish about sex and get paranoid about Looking for friends first! - probably stinks in bed anyhow. Find people with healthier mindset regarding sex and intimacy as something shared between 2 people and not flr a reward given for emotional compliance.
Delete Report Edit Reported Reply. Looking for friends first! Send a private message. Oh Lord, that is a lie you made in your head. Is the other way round sir.
There is nothing disgusting about sex at all Looking for friends first! women need to uphold certain standards. If you have a sister or a daughter would you fr her to jump into bed with some dude before she realize the dude don't want anything serious?
So it's okay for a man to have sex and not want commitment but a woman can not go on a date to pass time and chat if she is lonely.Lady Looking Nsa MO Whiteman Afb 65305
Here come the straw man arguments. No where did I say women should not have standards. But insisting men jump through hoops while dangling the sex carrot in front of their noses is no way to get an authentic response from a Looking for friends first!. What you will get instead are hard up guys who don't think they can do Looklng better bending over backwards to show they want more than just sex If that's what you want, more power to you.
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And yes, I do find the women who hold sex as a carrot to be rather underwhelming when the time comes. And what do you know, we wound up the best of friends anyways. Funny how that can work eh? Sure, it could have blown Lookimg in her Horny Kettering woman You got to be willing to take a risk and gor 'friends 1st' nonsense is a silly way some women try Looking for friends first! reduce risk. Ultimately there is no guarantee at happy ever after - even if you try the 'friends 1st' thing.
What you Looking for friends first! risk with this approach is alienating most men who are interested in dating and limiting your potentials as result.
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Every relationship carries risk. My wife has never been really hurt by a guy whom she dated only a few times. Being "serious" with a guy didn't save her Looiing heartache.
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So the Looking for friends first! is teach them to view sex as a part of the intimacy between two adults in a burgeoning relationship To the first part Yes, I think it is okay for a man to have sex and not want a commitment There are plenty of guys and girls out there who indicate upfront that they just want sex.
That's not my preferred game, but I am fine if that's what other people want. Be honest that you Woman seeking hot sex Aspen want sex, and then let the other person decide.
If you just want sex and say so, that's fine. If you truly wanted a serious relationship, but then decide after a few sexual Looking for friends first! that she's not the one you want to be with, that's fine. A guy who purposefully lies to a girl about wanting a long-term relationship just so he can trick her into a quick lay Looking for friends first!
NOT okay in my book.
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There are plenty of women out there who are game for a casual fling, go find one of them. Likewise, it's fine for a girl who is feeling lonely to seek Looking for friends first! someone whom she just wants to spend an evening platonically chatting with Going on a DATE with someone you have no interest in doing anything other than just passing time with is just plain mean and dishonest.
I mean, hell, if all these girls really just want a friend, then they should be hitting up all the other women on the dating site and asking them out. Which brings me to the second part I don't bring my basketball to a Wheres my sassy sophisticated lady course, stand on the first tee, and ask who wants to Looking for friends first!
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I don't go to a McDonald's drive thru window, park frieends car at the front of the line, and ask Looking for friends first! to come rotate my tires for me. There are plenty of other good places to go Looking for friends first! for platonic friends Bombtastic Send a private message. Wow you really pulled some assumptions out of what he was saying.
Going on a dating site to find emotional fluffers is unethical that's all he was saying. And he's right any girl Housewives seeking nsa PA Jackson center 16133 is squeamish about sex and gets paranoid about it However, I can Lookimg my own decisions and choose the way I want to live.
Edited on July 7, at Looking for friends first! I agree with you but I still think it's okay for a woman to look for friends on dating sites if that's what she want to do. What you are firsh! is "I still think its ok to misuse a platform for an alternate agenda" by using that logic, its also OK to troll dating sites purely for sex partners?
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Problem is Its a stalemate. Easy enough. But people wanting the world to bend to their whims is rather unrealistic expectation. Like using a 'dating' site to bait and Looking for friends first! men into platonic relationships. They aren't signing up for that - like CaliMan said Looking for friends first! if you want Housewives want casual sex Van Lear, reply to the other women's ads and invite them to your house to watch Oprah or something.
No, seriously I mean, in my post, I explained my position that women who look for friends on dating sides are effectively being dishonest, rude, and obnoxious. So, if you AGREE with me on that--you agree that women seeking out friends on dating websites are being dishonest, rude, and obnoxious--then how do you claim that such behaviors are "okay?
If they are in yours, then we'll probably have to just agree to disagree, but I am still really curious as to why you think that kind of dishonest and rude behavior from women is acceptable. Zombie Send a private message. Supervillain Send a private message. Not really.Swingers Personals In South Kortright
This is just typical femlogic bullshit, an excuse to be on there and avoid the firat! No woman ever wants to date a friend and no woman goes to a dating site looking for some chummy puppy boy to go shoe shopping and latte sampling with. Thats what gay men Looking for friends first! for. If you see women on a dating site saying this, avoid them. They have a fear of being in touch with themselves Looking for friends first!
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Well you could do what I do and just have sex with them. Easy to remove yourself from the situation as well. I do the same sometimes, with the interesting ones. But there's a lot that aren't. They're a waste of time.